Coming out as Bi finally....
I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for several years (I'm in my 50s). I had bi-curious urges and explored them *before* I met my girlfriend. I have not cheated on her and I do not want anyone but her. I've only recently accepted myself I was bi-sexual and I told her. It's not going well and she is very upset with me, angry at me and says I lied to her, deceived her, etc. I totally understand this - and yet I only accepted it myself. I feel like complete crap and like I'm an awful person for not telling her when we first met. But, I didn't accept it at all and just hoped I would forget about it. Yet, it's bubbling up and finally accepted it myself. There isn't a reason for sharing with her other than I wanted to be honest. And yes, I wasn't honest with myself for the last several years.. i get that.
Anyone else have this experience where it didn't go well? I hate that this is causing her pain and I'm not sure what to do.