I'm in a ldr with my boyfriend and we are both gamers. Me and him used to game together: Minecraft, CK, Smash Bros, PokeMMO etc.
I've been wanting to game with him lately, I ask him multiple times and he always says he doesn't feel like it and that he only likes to really play competitive games like OW, Valorant, etc.
I'm down to play those games too but I'm definitely not on his skill level/rank bracket so we don't play those games together and he plays those games with his friends, which is great and no big deal.
There was a time when I paid for a modded server for Minecraft, added all these different mods he wanted, then I built a house for us in the game and he suddenly didn't want to play it with me anymore. I asked him recently about it and he said he doesn't like to play grindy games like Minecraft or Stardew Valley anymore.
And then with Smash Bros, whenever I ask, he never wants to but it seems like when his friend wants to he's always down to.
Yesterday me and him got into a fight about it for the third time, and I'm thinking I might be overreacting/being dramatic cause he does spend quality time with me in other ways like watching movies and stuff but I do miss gaming with him.
Tldr: AIO bf used to play games with me but doesn't really want to these days but it seems like if his friends wants to, he's always down no matter what.
I need honesty with this cause Im feeling so childish about it.