Something to get off my chest
I’m in my early 30s and kalyanajonas is now stronger than ever. I’m very much comfortable with my current life. Even if I lack a social circle, I’ve come to enjoy the peace and freedom in my life. Ever since my parents started bringing up topics of Kalyanam and has also started asking to talk to prospects, there is a certain dullness in me. The thought of living with a bunch of strangers, leaving my comfort zone and navigating through possible issues that could bring is making me paralysed. Does this happen to everyone? I’ve mostly seen everyone around me getting excited and eager to talk to people for marriage.
Anyway, it’s a very unsettling feeling. I’m so drained. Hopefully will feel better in the coming days.
Edit: thank you for taking time to respond. It has definitely put me in better spirits. Its a relief to know that I’m not alone with uncomfortable feelings when it comes to marriage topics. I’ve started soft launching the idea of being unmarried at home.
Hope you all find peace and happiness 🖖🏽