u/Future-Big-6568

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I 23 F recently got the opportunity to intern at an organisation school campus. I met an expectant lady who obviously needed help she would handle finance, and I would handle operations.

Regardless, I had my own reports that I submitted and specific roles that my supervisor doesn't get questioned on. I had a title and everything with a salary of about 15k gross wakiita, a 6 month probation.

Hr then says after 6 months salaries don't really change they review salaries yearly but even when the pregnant lady leaves there's nothing additional ama "if I feel like my work is that good I can ask for something" which confuses me bc they specifically asked me to take over so they saw I was that good.

Anyway, we have a new guy who is to take over from me since the pregnant lady will be taking her leave. Nimemtrain nikamwonyesha kila kitu expected tena ananiambia he's earning 30k ....

Everywhere first blurred .... I'm currently looking for any roles admin or finance in wtv industry if there's a vacancy yk of kindly ....

(There's alot more I'm not mentioning like roles being informally passed to me, hr giving specific leave days then backtracking saying these are "ideally what should happen" not necessarily what will happen etc etc )

Hey guys

So I need advice. I live at home. My dad and I have been having a lot of friction since he decided to retire himself with no plan. He left us in a lot of debt and no support. We have debt everywhere, which was nothing new bc even the job he had was unstable for several years.

He has been primarily at home now for 4 years. He is also extremely abusive, especially to my mum, so even just that made me lose all the respect I had for him.

Anyway, I got a job that also doesn't pay well, bt at least I have regular pay. It's so small, I pay for our monthly food debt, and it's depleted . For context, we are 7 in total. I provide almost the majority with my sisters chipping in kidogo kidogo here and there.

The dilemma is that after all this, they still want to give me a curfew. I have no autonomy. I can't sleep over once in a while, even. My bf manages a restaurant he goes up to night shift, so with our schedules , the only time we can see each other is if I sleep over.

Being told by my dad that I'm being disrespectful to him, which lands so flat to me bc I can barely give a shit. I feed him and his family.

I only feel bad for my mum since she gets the brunt of it, but I don't like being home, and I feel like I can't breathe there.