u/Funny-Second-8681

so me and my boyfriend are 16 and i feel like i need to include this he asked me if i was a virgin, i said yes and he asked me if id ever cheated on anybody, i said no but he eventually found out i lied so he got really upset and i apologised let him go through my phone then he stayed with me so i feel like i kind of owe him something since then oh and its an online relationship i know it sounds stupid but ya anyways i love him we were planning on meeting soon and he used to be so nice to me calling everyday playing games together complimenting me alot stuff like that, but recently hes been so horrible to me like last night he called me an "ugly bitch" cuz i gave him a pass to call me a bitch and when i was like "why would you call me ugly" he goes "its just an insult" and im sat there like why would you want to insult me? anyways i also like burst out crying the other night because hes been acting like he hates me and he clarified he doesnt hate me and was so sweet then i left for abit and when i came back he was back to acting like he hated me he never compliments me, he makes me look stupid by asking me questions about stuff when ive told him in the past im not stupid i just cant think when im put on the spot, he somewhat fantasises about hitting me? like he always brings up the fact that if i hit him hed hit me back and it wouldnt be light even though id never hit him?, the way he talks about women is gross he thinks hes superior because hes a man he calls them bitches etc and when i tell him to stop he does but for a tiny period of time, whenever we play a game together and im not doing good he goes out of his way to highlight how bad i am and get mad at me for it, and ive recently seen him in girls comment sections where theyre posting their face hes not saying anything like bad hes just saying random stuff and is always there and ive tried to keep an open mind about it because i have guys in my comment section and im not immediately wanting to date them when they comment but its about their intent ugh and weve been spending so much less time together which im not mad about he has his own life but idk i think its kinda dodgy oh and he said "if you ever cheated on me id stay with you and make you so insecure then leave when ur lifes ruined" and we do talk about what wed do if either of us cheated but saying that the same night he called me an ugly bitch rubbed me the wrong way oh he did apologise for it but idk it still hurt idk wether i break up with him or not and if so what do i even say ugh