u/Funny-Monitor665

AITA for getting snappy with my mom after she kept asking me questions i had no answers to?

I (16F) have been sick for the past few days and I got picked up early from school. My mom (46F) came into my room asking about one of my summer programs that she had just gotten an email about, asking about arrival and departure dates. The email had just come and I hadn't even opened my gmail that day. She kept asking me stuff as I looked through the email and I told her that it was all in the email. She was beginning to leave my room when she asked me again a question. I looked at the email and saw that the answer was right there, so I sort of snapped at her, frustrated, that it was all in the email. She glared at me before storming downstairs and screaming. She shrieked at me from downstairs (I was upstairs) to just do everything myself. She then told me that studying was making me a bad/evil kid (note: this was in korean, so the translation isn't exact. It was roughly that.) and that it probably made me think that others were dumber than me. I tell her that 1) I didn't even read the email either and that 2) I was still tired and sick. She told me that being tired as an excuse for being frustrated was nonsense.

She's done this a couple of times before but it hasn't gotten this bad. My head still hurts and I've cried a little over this. I personally think that she's being emotionally immature because she's always so sensitive over me getting even the tiniest bit frustrated with her. Whenever this happens she just implodes.

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u/Funny-Monitor665 — 7 days ago