Hiding an 17 yo child from fiance/wife for 7 years
I’m in a dark place in my life. And I’m heartbroken. I need your advice.. I got married 5 months ago after 6 years and some months of committed relationship. After pushing my husband so hard and as he said “accusing” him of many things (hiding his phone, his finances, and his mental absence), he finally admitted while crying about a 17 yo daughter from previous relationship. I already knew that he had two more kids from a previous marriage, but I was completely clueless about this one.
So now I realize that he’s paying three child support instead of two. Also, one of his daughters committed suicide about three months ago and he had that from me as well now everything is coming out and I’m heartbroken that he always claimed to be my best friend and I thought we knew everything in each other‘s life, he said he’s willing to do anything to make it up, but my gut tells me there is nothing there to be made up.
What do I do? What would you do? It hurts because even his parents had death from me, knowing that he was lying. I changed so many big decisions in my life based on and around him… I can’t believe this is happening.