Happy Sunday, ladies.
I am a lesbian that came out in my teens, so I'm not a late bloomer, but I am chatting with a woman who is and it's looking like we are going to meet up and (hopefully) be intimate.
It's been a very long time since I was myself, or with, a woman during her first time. I am deeply honored and appreciative that she is choosing me to explore this with, and yes this hopefully has long term relationship potential. We have built a real sense of intimacy and trust between us, so this isn't going to be a one night stand kind of thing.
So my question for those of you who have gone through this experience or even for those of you vividly imagining it, what would you like to have happen? What would make you feel comfortable? I want to make this as wonderful for her as it can be.
This is going to involve a hotel room, so I'm planning on bringing a playlist to listen to instead of people walking by in the hallway, electric candles for ambience. Beyond that, any suggestions from the first timer's perspective? I'm not really at all concerned about the actual sex part, or 'knowing what to do', I am very comfortable with my end of the physical aspect, but if you were meeting up with an experienced lesbian for your first time, what would you want her to know to make it as easy or comfortable as possible? Any tips or ideas you would like to give your future first time lover?