u/Fun_Catch7924

I’m 21, physically fit and I’d say reasonably attractive, so I don’t really struggle meeting girls. My current setup is mostly casual, I hook up during vacations and in university I usually end up with FWBs/FUBUs so I could fuck good shit women lmao. I really have a high sex drive, so that lifestyle has just been what I naturally fell into.

But lately I’ve been wondering about direction. People often say college is where you meet someone serious or even your future wife, but I’m not really approaching dating that way right now.

How did you personally figure out when (or if) it was time to transition from casual setups to looking for something long-term? Like, I'm just literally just having fun.

I’m 21 and I met this woman at the beach, she’s 26. Things moved pretty fast and we ended up hooking up the same day. At first I was set on using a condom, but in the moment we both got carried away. She even said she wanted to try it raw, and yeah… I went along with it.

Now that I’ve had time to think about it, I feel pretty dumb about the whole situation and I’ve been stressing. She told me she’s on birth control, but since I don’t really know her that well yet, I can’t help but overthink everything.

I just want to understand how risky this actually is. Like realistically, what are the chances she could get pregnant in this situation?