aita for not banning my daughter from seeing her best friend?
I (46F) have been married to my husband (34M) for a year and a half and we have been together for about 2 1/2 years. I have a (17F) daughter from a previous relationship who lives with us full time. She is in her 11th grade of school and does it on-line. She is a very introverted teenager and rarely leaves her bedroom much less the house. She really only has a few friends. She has 1 friend, her best friend (17F), that she hangs out with primarily. The first time her friend came to the house she was very quiet and shy, like not make eye contact shy. They hung out in my daughter’s room for a few hours and then she left. Well, my husband did not like her because she didn’t say hi to him and we got into a huge fight because he wanted me to tell my daughter she couldn’t come over anymore and they couldn’t hang out again. I don’t agree that him not liking her for not saying hi and saying they can’t be friends anymore. He says I should have his back because he is the man of the house and the wife is supposed to always support her husband. He says she disrespected him in his own home. I compromised and said that she can’t come over to our house anymore, but that I wouldn’t ban my daughter from going over to her house. He agreed, but then the next time they hung out, her friend came to get her and we had another fight about it. This time he said he didn’t even want her in the driveway. Fine, I agreed. This last time they hung out, we had another fight. Now he is back to her not seeing her best friend at all. I don’t think that is the right thing to do. The arguing has gotten so bad and neither of us are budging. So, AITA?