u/Fun-Somewhere9790

Hi. So i heard statements like "fat is a trans girls' friend" and I understand that. I wanna lose weight cause I've been fat my whole life, it's bothering me and making my life a lot harder, but I'm not sure if it would be a good move in case it ruins my transition or makes me more clockable / pass less or something. Also ultimately I think my goal is to try to pass, because reasons.

Hi.

So title. I was wondering if it's wrong to plan / envision what you want to be in the future. Transitioning is basically RNG so maybe you just have to deal with what you've got rather than trying to be your perfect self. What do you think?