u/Fun-Savings2349

I am a queer 24 year old woman who is considered conventionally attractive and im only saying that because I know that's not why im struggling to settle down. I am unfortunately very disabled and VERY open about it. None of my friends live near me so I don't go out at all unless it's for errands and medical appointments with my caretaker assisting me. How am I suppose to date like this? :/ I've been on several dating apps since I was 18 and have only ever spoken to 3 women and it's never gone past small talk. I'm not sure what I'm suppose to do anymore. It doesn't help I'm hyper feminine to the max which is not attractive to most gay women in my experience. I feel so stuck I can't just go out and meet ladies going out alone as a disabled woman makes me extremely vulnerable with the conditions I have so what am I suppose to do? Also not interested in online or long distant dating at all I want the real thing. No one on these apps ever likes me except cisgender men who I have nothing in common with and straight girls looking for friends. I'm extremely lonely and I've been single for so long I don't know what to do. Where can I find single gay women? Do they even exist? I'm in the dmv (maryland) if that matters, please help I've never been in a longterm relationship and it's hard to not blame my body for making me unlovable.

I've had a flare up on my vulva since the beginning of march and I was starting to believe I'd have to deal with it forever but I just realized I haven't felt the urge to scratch in a couple days and inspected down there and I'm finally back to normal again I could cry!! I'm FREEEEE NO MORE VULVA ITCHING!!!! thank you bleach baths and hydrocortisone!!😭 now how do I prevent it from coming back has anyone else had success in maintaining eczema off their genitals?

I'm 24 I've had endometriosis since I was 10 years old and I got a laparoscopy at 20 and have been suppressing my period since I was 17. I have not taken a break from birth control since I was a teenager. I am currently on the patch and I bleed pretty often. I have full periods, clots, endometriosis cramps, and heavy bleeding while "suppressing" my period. none of my providers have ever seemed concerned about this and blamed it on my continuous use which makes sense to me and I'm not worried about that, but I developed adenomyosis in the past 2 years some how. I had a pelvic mri 2 years ago and I was diagnosed with a prolapse and just a week ago I had a follow up and they found more prolapsing and adenomyosis in my uterus this time. Is that possible on birth control with period suppression? I'm so confused. what am I suppose to do now? I'm seeing a pelvic floor obgyn robotics surgeon soon to fix my prolapse is it worth asking him to take out the adenomyosis too? has anyone else developed adenomyosis while on HRT?