u/Fun-Library9820

▲ 2 r/DeveloperJobs+1 crossposts

[For Hire] software developer

Dev for hire — 30$/h

I’m a developer with hands-on experience building real-world projects and working with clients in freelance settings. My stack includes Python, Go, Rust, and JavaScript, along with React, TypeScript, Tailwind CSS, FastAPI, Gin, and GORM.

I’m comfortable working on backend systems, APIs, and full-stack apps. I’m currently looking for opportunities to gain more experience and build long-term collaborations, so I’m open to lower rates while still delivering reliable, quality work.

GitHub: github.com/CBYeuler

Feel free to DM me for details or my resume.

reddit.com
u/Fun-Library9820 — 3 days ago

10 days ago, my girlfriend broke up with me after a heated argument. It was the first argument we’d had in a month. I begged her to stay, which I now realize I shouldn’t have done. We’ve broken up before and reconciled.

Since the breakup, I’ve kept no contact. She blocked me everywhere except Spotify.

Two days ago, I changed my Instagram profile picture because it was a photo she had taken of me. The next day, she changed her Spotify profile picture (the only place where I’m not blocked) to a photo I had taken of her on one of our dates. I took this as a sign and changed my Spotify picture to one from the same date. About five minutes later, she changed hers to something completely unrelated. At that point, I blocked her on Spotify because I didn’t want to play games.

I’ve been trying to move on. I went to the gym and posted my first Instagram story in months, just a workout with the caption “back at it again.” Then I noticed her sister—who doesn’t follow me and never watches my stories—viewed both my workout and workday stories. That felt strange.

After that, I checked my ex’s profile and realized she had unblocked me on Instagram (though I’m still blocked on other platforms like Twitter and WhatsApp).

Today has been especially hard. I really miss her. I even checked her Twitter from a burner account, and she posted something about Workers’ Day.

I still love her and want her back, but I also recognize the old patterns. I’m trying to work on myself—going to the gym, attending therapy, focusing on my job—but I still have this constant, heavy feeling of longing.

Any advice would be appreciated and wanted.

reddit.com
u/Fun-Library9820 — 12 days ago