I suppose I should wait until we actually have a diagnosis but my head is swimming right now and I need to articulate this. My MIL displays narcissistic tendencies often and is very materialistic. She cares more about designer labels and a big house with a fancy car than her kids. She and my husband honestly do not have a good relationship but my husband (his choice) still maintains a relationship with her. She has done awful things to me and my husband and I am LC with her. She is honestly only nice to me in public and otherwise I’m an afterthought.
FIL texted my husband and his siblings today that they found a mass and MIL might have breast cancer. She needs to be seen ASAP. I also don’t know how to feel about him telling his children this without an actual diagnosis but I digress. Anyway, I am preparing for the worst. I feel awful for even being kind of indifferent to all of this bc of how she’s treated my husband and me, but still want to be supportive of my loved ones who this will affect. I will update when I have more information but I feel like a bomb has been dropped on us. We just got back from a trip too so I was riding high but now not so much.