I’ve posted here before about my breakup (link below), and I’m still struggling to move on.
Previous post: https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/comments/1q16iuv/cheated_on_after_a_long_relationship_blocked/
It was a 6+ year relationship that ended because he cheated and moved on with someone else. It has been months, but I still feel stuck.
What hurts me the most is that after everything, he seems completely fine and happy, while I am still dealing with the pain. I’m doing my job, but apart from that I don’t feel motivated to do anything. I just feel mentally stuck.
Sometimes I keep thinking:
- How can someone hurt you so much and still be okay?
- Do people like this ever realise what they did?
- Why does the person who cared more suffer more?
I don’t want to stay like this anymore. I really want to move on and feel normal again.
If anyone has gone through something similar, how did you actually get out of this phase?