Controlling HCBM
Just need to rant, so me and my partner have a been dealing with HCBM. Shes so controlling over everything, last night she let my SD facetime him. SD (3 yrs old I’ll call her Addy) asked to speak to my daughter (3yrs old I’ll call her Emma). He called Emma over and they said hi to eachother and they had a simple conversation. The girls have grown up together and call eachother sister. While the girls were talking, and saying sister this and that her mom which is holding the phone for her to be on the call is telling her, “That’s not sister her name is Emma”. After that Addy wasnt comfortable anymore she kept looking over at her mom everytime she spoke. Then Addy asks for me but of course I cant pop in to say hi because her mom is too much. I guess Addy was like “mom, daddy and ___(me)___” nd she just cut her off kept telling her “I dont want to know” “I dont want to know”, and Addy procedded to hand her something and she like smacked her hand away.
Weve gone to court and the judge has said, if they want to call eachother sisters thats fine. Shes soo against it and it’s been an on going battle. Over little things.