u/Fun-Entertainer2184

I 21F am pregnant after trying for 3 years with my husband 24M. Well we both wanted to keep it a secret and surprise the family after the 15week mark just to make sure I don’t miscarry again.

My 21M Brother in law and his 25F girlfriend just announced there pregnancy after me and me husband just bought everything saying “first grandchild” to give to the family in the next couple of weeks.

I am angry, guilty, and feeling super selfish for wanting this to be a joke and not real. As I know all the drama that has been accrued. I also now don’t even want to announce the pregnancy due to my MIL already not liking me and excluding me. I don’t know what to do!