I 43F married to 45M husband for a year and a half and together 5yrs. I discovered that he's been liking racey pictures and videos of people on social media. When I asked him about it. He said it's just something guys do and it doesn't mean anything. He says he doesn't message or communicate with them. I found out about this a few months ago and again came up on my socials recently.
So I did some digging and found that days before our wedding, a day after valentine's day and when he was away on holiday without me he's been liking this one particular social media influencer' sexy videos.
I haven't mentioned anything about the timings. But I asked if he was still attracted to me or if he was bored of me. He responds that he very much so and loves me very much.
We both work stressful jobs and long hours so we don't have A very active amount of intimacy. We spend whatever time we have together and he says he rathers spending his days off with me.
I'm not sure how to feel about all this as I have been cheated in the past many times before. I am feeling insecure and am I being paranoid?
TL;DR : am I 43F being paranoid about my 45M husband liking racey videos of people on social media?