I need some advice about a situation that has me pretty frustrated. My husband’s baby mommas mother, who we have gone no contact with for safety reasons, keeps trying to go around our backs.
For some background, I have adopted my husband’s child, and the child’s biological mother does not have contact with her family because of ongoing issues with them. My husband and I already discussed and agreed on not having that side of the family at his birthday party for the kid, but then her mother went behind my back and asked him about it again. Asked me to have him call her and then while on the phone with him was acting like I was the one saying no and she wanted to ask him because he has custody. Which isn’t true we both have custody of the child now.
It felt disrespectful and honestly unnecessary, especially because this was already something we had handled as a family. I am trying to keep the peace and not turn this into a bigger problem, but it definitely rubbed me the wrong way. This isn’t the first time this has happened too and I’m just so angry with her.
Has anyone dealt with something like this? Should I address it, or just tighten boundaries and leave it alone?