Her kid ALWAYS comes first
I guess I'm just trying to see if theres any salvation here. Bottom line is according to her it's completely my fault that she's unhappy with our situation (2 from my previous, 1 from hers and 1 together) tonight we finally had a chance to sit in the hot tub for some us time but as soon as she stepped for outside she changed her mind and went to cuddle with her 12 year old son who was upset about our 5 year old from a typical 5 year old situation earlier. Her son is constantly the forefront of every scenario. Ive neglected my own kids to try to put or marriage first and I feel bad about it every time. Anytime we talk she calls me narcissistic but shoulders absolutely no responsibility for herself when it comes to our relationship. She says that anytime she's mad at me I need to be the one to step up and eat it for her. Sex is dead. What do I do here...?