Alright Imma be real with you
This is reddit so someone’s gonna get offended with what I’m gonna say.
But I’m so sick of this dating thing. I just want to find a fuck buddy or like a serious girlfriend. But where I live there aren’t many options. It’s just bars and clubs. I’ve tried them but I swear like, the girls all sit in one corner and the guys sit in the other. And I’ve sat there watching to see if either side approaches, but no they all just sit there with the loud music and low lights. So kinda lame.
I’ve tried getting some numbers at the mall which is like the most horrendous thing you could try, but somehow I’ve gotten some success. I only get the number tho, never get a date out of it.
Now I’m not exactly timothee chamalet, but I’m 5’10- 5’11. I lift and train so I’m in pretty good shape.
I dress nice I smell nice. I have infinite topics of conversation. I know exactly what I want. Like I’m not trying to be entitled, I’m asking what the fuck am I doing wrong. Just like, am I just not trying enough?
Where I live people don’t use dating apps much. So all I get are trans people and gay dudes who told the app they were women. I’m not into them.
There aren’t many things to do where I live. some people like going to the beach. But I don’t think that’d be a good place to ask for numbers.
Genuinely ripping my hair out trying to figure something out. I have a really high libido, and I just can’t anymore. I’m losing my mind. I also don’t want to jack off all day every day. So I’m tweaking.
Haven’t felt intimacy in like 7 months now. Not even a soft touch or a kiss. I know others have lasted longer. But before that it had been 3 years until I found that last person. So yeah. Just humbly asking for help
P.S. please keep in mind that sometimes I like to be a little comedic with my writing. Don’t take every single thing seriously for God’s sake. Please lighten up. I’m not ACTUALLY ripping my hair off. Ok? Chill. Breathe, take a second. Thank you.