من اقوال والدي النرجسي:
بدك تشوفي حالك على ابوكي يا شر***** يا متخلفة (لما صححته عن طبيعة وظيفتي).
انا ما بطيقك لا انت ولا اخوتك
انت واختك الش******* السبب انه امك صابها السرطان، كلكم ما بتسوا صرمايتي.
امي بتحكيلي اتحملي، كل عائلته عندهم مشاكل نفسية و هاي نتيجة مشاكلهم، ابوكي اكيد بحبك.....راكبه شيطان...
كل يوم بدعي عليه .كيف اي شخص عاقل ممكن يتوقع مني انسى هيك كلام؟
I am new to this community and it has been a great help in trying to express how I am feeling. I feel like I am going crazy, but I am not sure how to deal with this. How can I deal with a Narcissistic father who is hijacking my mother's treatment plan because he thinks he know better than her doctors. He is in the medical field and is well known/respected in his field, but not related to my mom's diagnosis. I worry he is influencing her decisions. He has always been like this, the I am smarter than everyone alive attitude, for as long as I remember. I made a comment last month that because one doctor we saw was not a good fit, doesn't mean we should not seek treatment. All hell broke loose and it reached a point where he said we (the children) are the reason she got sick. He said many hurtful things and considered it a sign of disrespect that I questioned his genius brain (disagreement with parents is a big issue in our culture) and that we should be thanking him that he is spending so much time talking with her doctors. I am lost and feel that I am about to lose my mind. I don't know how to deal with this. How did you deal with Narcissistic family members as a caregiver?