So my boyfriend and I (f) tried anal for the first time today and it was going great until well… he said he noticed a smell and there was a small poop streak on the towel we were on. He stopped immediately and went to shower. It’s a bit embarrassing but we know it’s natural so no big deal and we laughed it off. But poop is obviously not sexy and it killed the vibes so that was the end of it. He said he would be down to try again but not if there’s poop. I absolutely loved it and want to make this something we can do once in a while or maybe regularly but I know he will be hesitant to try again unless I do something to ensure I am pretty much fully cleared out.
I have a good diet, get lots of fiber, and go to the bathroom regularly. I always douche before anal play, for as long as it takes till the water runs clear 3-4 times but usually 30 minutes to an hour after douching a little bit of watery poop makes its way down. My boyfriend is definitely on the bigger side, about 7-8 inches, and we were going at it rough so I know it’s possible he went past the length of the rectum. Is there anything else I could do to make sure I am cleared out so accidents don’t happen? I know what I’m asking is a stretch but I’m down for anything. I really want to keep doing anal but I know my boyfriend, if there’s a second accident he will not do it again. Will I have to clear past my rectum because of his size? I’ve done fasting for a few days at a time, I’ve also done colonics a couple times, maybe I should save it for then? Shower nozzle enema? Psyllium husk? Any tips and recommendations, no matter how crazy, would be greatly appreciated.
Edit: thank you to those who actually gave advice! I just want to clarify that I made this post because I want to be as clean as possible too, it’s not just for my boyfriend. We’ve had over 5 years of great sex, I’m not gonna break up with him cause he isn’t into shit on his dick lol. I’m the adventurous one in the bedroom so he tends to follow my lead and we figure out what he’s into along the way. He was really into watching me with my toys so he initiated and was very into it until… he caught a whiff. He handled the accident well. He wasn’t rude or mean, was just a bit grossed out, we both laughed it off and he kindly excused himself to wash up. If anal isn’t for him I’ll respect that, I personally loved it and was just looking for a potential solution that I might’ve not known about. I’ll experiment by myself for a while and maybe I’ll find a routine that works for my body. Otherwise I still have my pussy and anal toys my boyfriend and I are glad to use instead.