My stbxw tried climbing on me on the couch again last night. And this time, I lost my temper.
Short version I called her a whore and gave her till Friday to decide how we are going to tell the kids and I asked where she would like to be served at on Monday. Almost have my living situation worked out. I need to end this farce.
She acts like I am a child throwing a tantrum at the store when a parent tells no about getting a new toy. She keeps saying things like, "Are you really going to let ego destroy your family?" It's is so infuriating she acts like I am the impossible one here. I told her I wanted a paternity test on our kids. She just smirked and so sure go for it.
Just a few hours ago, she attempted to have sex with me. Climbing naked on me on the couch. I am having no part of that.
Did anyone else go to their doctor to ask for a sti panel and feel like you were being judged like you did something wrong. And when I tried to say the reason why they just looked at me like whatever dirt bag. Feel like I am falling deeper and deeper.
I need someone to talk to about this because I can't speak to anyone in my real life. This is twofold. I am ashamed and embarrassed. But I also don't want this to affect my kids or either of our careers. I have discovered that my wife of 12 years has been going to some members only fancy sex club. I guess my first order of business is to make sure the kids are even mine and then find a good lawyer. After reading a few different posts on reddit, it seems I have already messed up by texting her to not bother coming home from her girls' trip because I know where she really was and sent a pic of her walking into the club with her friends. I am so lost right now, haven't slept in what feels like a week.
Edit. She started calling first thing this morning, so I have blocked her everywhere I can think of. I'm going to the doctors tomorrow and started calling around for a lawyer.
Update. So I feel so utterly defeated after my pathetic attempt to confront her last night. My basic feeling afterward was her basically telling me to stay in my lane.