Kicked out crazy ass, older sister after she tried to intimidate me at a wedding.
Hello female 30 here I just wanted to tell a story. I honestly do not believe I’m in the wrong but I still just wanted to tell it. So I have 3 sisters one older then me and two younger all our names start with A so to make it easier I’ll go my out ages. Older sis 34, me 30, sis after me 28, and the youngest 26. Some backstory 34 year-old we do not know if she is bipolar or schizophrenia because she’s never been diagnosed, but she acts like it and it’s been like this all of our lives. People tiptoeing around her, trying not to say the wrong thing to sit her off and over the years you just get tired of it because I’m a grown woman I’m not about to keep watching myself and the way I speak around you if you come at me sideways just know I’m giving you the energy back. About a year ago she didn’t like the apartments she lived in so she wanted to move keywords wanted to move did not have to, but chose to because she thought she can do better and if you can do better more praise to you. She realize she had an eviction on her record from a previous apartment so she asked my two younger sisters, myself and my mother who I left out by accident because we all bought a house together three years ago if she could move in with us. And let’s know she could’ve owned the house with us, but she literally told us all to our faces. She did not want to live with us and wanted to have her own space with her child. That’s understandable. Do you boo. So she comes to us a year ago and access can she move in with us and save up while she works on the eviction so she can get a better apartment than where she’s coming from so of course her being our sister and my mother’s child of course we’re gonna let you and our nephew come with us. We’re family. We help each other. Prior to her moving in I already warned my sisters if she comes here we’re gonna have to watch her because she tends to act, bipolar and moody for no reason and then just goes back to normal like nothing’s never happened. But we still said come on in.
Skip to Wednesday me and the 28-year-old are sitting at the table, enjoying our night talking and hitting some of the devils lettuce. When she starts acting moody and goes into the room, we don’t care no mind nobody’s chasing you. You’re not the main character, her son five year-old and who is autistic comes out. The room runs up the stairs and waves at us, starts laughing and runs away the 28 year-old is like was that the baby and I was like yes, but he ran away the 34-year-old sitting in the room like the demon she is pops her head out and says yeah he came to check up on you guys because he knows y’all was talking about us. Me and 28yrold look at each other like what the fuck is she talking about? Nobody’s even stunning you and you’re coming out the room starting step if you’re gonna be a spook stay in there so we don’t say nothing to her. We keep going on about our night she likes to use her kid against us so she takes him pull him in the room and close the door. We don’t see her from the rest of the night. Oh well. Skip to Saturday my mother was invited to a family friends’s wedding and of course we’re invited too so we’re gonna go. The theme was peak and purple and we already known this for like two months so you have more than enough time to be ready I guess she went to the store and got her and her son’s outfit. I already had a pink dress that I was gonna wear cause I wasn’t buying anything new and my two other sisters and Mom had to go buy outfits. My youngest sister 26 year-old and her boyfriend 26 as well. They come back to the house to meet us because she moved out a year ago with her boyfriend that’s how my oldest sister was able to move in and occupy her space while she was gone. So they come and meet us. We’re all taking pictures. We take two separate cars, my oldest sis and my mother. They get in the same car and leave. Me 28-year-old and both 26-year-olds we get in my other sister’s car and go another way because we gotta pick up the 28 year old girlfriend.
We pick her up. We’re having a good time. We’re by we’re drinking. We’re smoking we get to the wedding. My mom and older sister went for the actual wedding. The rest of us showed up for the reception because I had work earlier that day so I still have to come home and shower so we were gonna show up at six. They showed up at five. I text my mom and say is it OK for us to walk in because I don’t wanna walk in while the service is going on I find it rude. My mother texted me and say come on in. We’re at the party part now. I tell everybody in the car they’re ready let’s go in we get in everything is beautiful everybody everybody’s dancing and they’re doing raffle tickets foods being served. It’s a nonalcoholic wedding so of course I’m drinking in the car and everything before I get in. Skip a couple hours. We’re all kind of just chilling at the table now waiting for a better song to come on so we can all go dance together. I tell the whole table I’m about to go outside to the car and roll up. I will text y’all and come out and meet me. I said we should not all leave together because it’ll look some type of way if a whole table just disappears and it wasn’t that many guests there so if we all left at the same time, it would look weird. Everyone agrees except for my mom. She said she’s gonna come with me because she invited another friend from work here and she’s outside and doesn’t know how to get in so I’m like OK. Let’s go meet her and we’ll show her how to get in.
We get outside we meet my mom’s friend. I drive us around to a different part of the building because it was so windy and cold. I wasn’t walking all the way back around. I’d rather just park by a side door so I can go from my car into the party. My mom meet up with her friend they both do a shot they get out of the car and leave. My mom tells me she’s gonna send my sisters back so we can all. Drink and smoke with each other plus the girlfriend and my sister’s boyfriend. So I’m in the car and I’m like where is 34-year-old my 26-year-old sister says she’s supposed to be coming but I think she changed her mind we’ve all known each other for years so we already know she’s about to start acting up here she go with this shit because she always feels like she’s OutKast but she’s never outcast. She always puts herself in that position. My mom raised us to where we should never outcast anybody family or not family because my mother was a OutKast because her sisters and mother used to leave her out of shit when she was younger so she raised us not to be that way towards each other. So I’m already thinking here we go but not too deep because I’ve been drinking. So we all drink we smoke and head back into the party. But before we go fully in my 26-year-old sister’s boyfriend says he has to use the bathroom 28-year-old says I have to too so I’m like let’s just all go to the bathroom first and then we’ll go back in and dance.
We’re all walking down the hallway to the bathroom. The order is 26 myself 28-year-old her girlfriend behind her who’s 31 and behind her is my 26-year-old sister’s boyfriend 26. He goes to the boys bathroom. We all go to the girls bathroom. Since my youngest sister walked in the bathroom first she saw my oldest sister already in the bathroom stall with her son using the bathroom so she says hey girl look at you up in here. 34-year-old looks at us close to the bathroom store with an attitude. We all look at each other like what the fuck. So I look around everybody and like who’s going to the bathroom 28-year-old says I’m going to the bathroom and walked into a bathroom stall, but then she comes back out saying there’s tissue in there. Can you hand me some paper towel I turn around and start handing her paper towel because I’m by the dispensary. I turned her girlfriend 31 and ask her do you have to go to the bathroom and I point at the next stall that’s open because there’s only three she tells me no so I go into it. Since my oldest sister and her son were in the first stall, I saw his baby shark on the floor and I was like oh shit a baby sharks on the floor and remember I’ve been drinking so I’m just saying whatever comes to mine. He reaches down and grabs it, and I guess they come out of the stall and start washing their hands. I’m the last one to come out. The bathroom is already crowded because it’s so small but it’s all of us in their family. I come out the stall. I tell my sister’s girlfriend excuse me. I’m trying to get to the sink that’s when my older sister stepped in front of me it says were you talking about California? And I’m so confused cause I’m like what are you talking about and she’s like I heard you talking about me going to California.
Sidenote, she’s a chef and she won a competition to go cook in California and if she wins out there, she wins money but so far she has a trip pay for her to go to California to cook cause she wanted it at her job we knew about this days prior. No one never talked about it at the wedding.
Back to the story I say what are you talking about? She looked at me with a full on attitude. It says I heard you talking shit about me going to California me still stunned and confuse I say I don’t even know what you’re talking about. I never said anything I walk around her and go wash my hands in my mind. The conversation is over. My youngest sister comes to me and was like is she OK and I’m like I don’t even know what she’s talking about. She’s talking about California. I’m like did I say anything about California cause I’m honestly confused 26-year-old says no nobody was talking about that so we head back into the wedding party. We walk in the party there’s nobody on the dance floor, but my oldest sister, her son and some other people I don’t know dancing. So I look at them and I’m like OK. They look good but I’m gonna go sit down because this is not the song I’m feeling. My youngest sister and her boyfriend say the same thing so we all go back to the table. Now the whole family is at the table. My mom is asking her work friend. Do you want to go dance? Everybody at the table says yes except for me the 26-year-old and her boyfriend. So everybody gets up and starts walking to the dance floor. My mother’s friend ends up, turning back around and comes and sit next to me saying girl I don’t even wanna dance in this music so I’m gonna sit with you. I’m like that’s OK because I know her so I don’t mind keeping her entertained until my mom comes back so she’s like my daughter is having a baby. Can I start showing you the pictures and I’m like yes girl please do. So she pulls out her phone and start showing me her daughter and her baby pictures.I left this part out but when me and my younger sisters and there partners came back to the party 34yrold was mugging me from the time I walked in til I sat down at the table remind you I had on sunglasses and their prescription so I wear them everywhere until the sunsets. Anybody who knows me knows that. So we all walk back and sit to the table in the order at the table. It’s my 28-year-old sister her 31 year-old girlfriend my mom,, her work friend me, my youngest sister and her boyfriend. We’re all sitting at the table talking. My mom says let’s get up and go dance. So while everyone is dancing, my mom‘s friend From Work myself 26-year-old sister and her boyfriend are still at the table. My oldest sister walks all the way from the dance floor and come sit at the table right across from me and it’s just staring at me and at first I’m not paying attention because my mom‘s friend is showing me all the pictures in her phone of the new baby and the 3-D ultrasound so of course I’m talking to her giving her my full attention but from the corner of my eyes, I can see my sister literally just staring, mugging me not saying nothing just sitting there like a fucking spook, staring at me so remember, I’m high and feeling my 1800. So she’s already been staring at me for like 10 minutes, but I’m paying no mind to it because once again I’m thinking maybe I’m seeing stuff and when I would actually stare at her she was never looking at me so I’m like OK it’s intoxication. The rest of the family comes back to the table. We’re all sitting there now and I’m telling them. Hey y’all should we start packing up and leaving it look like it’s getting a little empty in here and at this point it’s like four tables of people live out of 20 tables when it started. Once again, I feel my sister’s eyes on me so this time I looked at her and was like are you staring at me? She flat out and says yes with a smart ass attitude in a role of her neck so I say what is the problem are you bipolar? That’s what she says well, you keep talking shit about me at that point. I’m trying not to lose it because I’m like we’re here at this wedding. I’m trying to be classy Black people already have an astigmatism from being called ghetto in public and here you go trying to start shit at this woman’s wedding. We are guest here. I stand them and say OK how about I meet you back at the house and I’m gonna slap the taste out your motherfucking mouth since you got a problem she stands up too with this. We can go outside. I said we’re at a wedding I’m not doing that here I get up and I start walking towards the bride in her family so I can say my goodbyes take my last-minute pictures because I didn’t want to just disappear. She is a family friend so it will be notice if we all just leave. I guess at this point my oldest sister is in the backyard yelling because I walked away so my mom and my other sisters are trying to get her to go outside because she so dramatic and she always wants to be the victim when she’s really a Karen.
So I walk up to the bride. I’m telling her hey I’m about to leave and I wanted to take pictures with the wedding party say goodbye to everybody so that’s what I do. I’m so caught up in my own mindset. I didn’t even notice my youngest sister was following me because she does not like confrontation so she’s gonna follow me because I don’t like confrontation. So she takes a picture for me while I’m posing with the bride and her daughter we say our goodbyes me and my younger sister we walked back out to the car because earlier I moved it closer to the building in a different direction than where my oldest sister and everybody else was parked. Me and my younger sister are walking to the car and she’s like I think she is losing her shit. We were never talking about her and I’m like yeah she literally trying to start shit at this wedding and she knows I didn’t say nothing. So we get in the car. I drive us to the front of the hotel because that’s where we were all at for the wedding party I see my dumb ass older sister, walking barefooted, screaming, and crying. My 28-year-old sister is literally behind her yelling and screaming at her and my mom is just in the middle trying to calm both of them down and my sister’s boyfriend is holding him back my 28-year-old sister from trying to get to my sister, the older one. So now I’m really confused so my younger sister, she jumped out the car to see what’s going on. I tell her I’m not getting out the car. She’s a fucking retard and I’m not about to embarrass myself at this wedding. So at this point, everybody’s kind of just doing circles in the parking lot, screaming and yelling and I’m thinking God the windows were returned on the car cause I’m like you won’t see me out there acting a heathen in public. So once everybody cools down after like 10 minutes, I tell my 28-year-old sister because she doesn’t wanna get in the car. She’s walking way down the street with my younger sister’s boyfriend and I’m telling her can you get in the car? I’m not about to sit out here because my oldest sister loves attention. She loves for people to chase after her, especially when she’s the one that does wrong and she hates apologizing. She never likes to take accountability. She’s the type of person that will throw rocks at a glass house and when the Shit breaks cry wolf and act like she didn’t do it. So once my 28 year sister calms down me her and my sister’s boyfriend we all get in the car and pull off my younger sister stays behind with my mom and then trying to explain to the 34-year-old that nobody was talking to you and maybe you want to go get checked because my youngest sister is a nurse. So they’re trying to tell her yeah you need to go get checked cause at this point you’re making up shit and you’re picking a fight with one of the most bubbly outgoing this person which I’m the one you don’t wanna pick a fight with because I do Kickbox and I just don’t go around saying hey you wanna fight because I already know the damage I can cause. So everybody’s in the car I tell my sister meet me at the house I pull off. We go drop the 28-year-old sister’s girlfriend off and now it’s just three of us in the car me the 26-year-old boyfriend and the 28-year-old sister and we’re all still trying to go back over what the hell happened and how did this shit all started? We all come up with the same explanation, we don’t know why she’s acting like this. This shit is just random. So we get back to the house and I call my little sister to come outside and smoke with us because she was in the house with my mom a crazy ass sister. She comes out we all start smoking and she’s pretty much catching us up on what happened in the other car. Long story short, she tells us my sister was saying that we were all whispering about her at the wedding, which was never true being that I was the one sharing her own and taking pictures for her. I honestly believe my sister is just insecure something she fails to admit to herself or to us. So we smoke in the car for about an hour and I’m already telling them you guys know when we get in the house I’m gonna slap the shit out of her for trying to intimidate me and embarrass me in public. Which is something everybody knows I do not go for. I do not like attention at all. I like to stay in the background. Everyone’s laughing and joking and thinking of playing since I didn’t seem angry I was actually very calm and still dancing in the music maybe because I’m a Gemini so I’m a good actor. So we all get out the car and now we’re walking up to the house we get in the house. My youngest sister she walks in first followed by me behind her one of my other younger sisters, the 20-year-old behind me and the 26-year-old boyfriend who is also 26 behind her.
As soon as we walk in, I see my oldest sister sitting on the couch and I don’t know if you guys ever believe in like demons or spirits or if you ever just seen somebody angry their face changes she’s that type you know when she has a problem because her face automatically changes she look like a demon is sitting on the couch. Her face was just black and dark out and she had her head down, still mugging in the ground, but not wanting to acknowledge me the person she started all this drama with at the wedding. I guess my youngest sister told my mom everything was cool because I was so calm but in my head, I already knew I was getting ready to pop off. So when you first walked in our house, we have four floors I said the stairs that go upstairs and I said the stairs that go downstairs with the two last floors. As I’m walking in, I head straight down the stairs and my mom is like are you OK and I was like no I’m still pissed off. I look right at my sister and said you better. Hope I go in this room and calm down because if I don’t, I’m taking my shoes off and I’m slapping you in your fucking face. I guess she thought I was joking because she gonna wait till I get down one instead of the stairs and before I go down the last side of the stairs into my room, I can still look up and see everybody in the living room, so I’m looking through the stairwells and she’s gonna wait till I get down the first side of the stairs and be like bitch. Yeah you’re scare you gotta go down the stairs. I guess she forgot who she was talking to because before I knew it I did a 180 took my UGGs off and was heading back up the stairs. I threw my backpack and shoes into my room and ran up those stairs in charge her. She’s just lucky that my mom two younger sisters and sister‘s boyfriend were strong enough to hold me back. I literally picked up my 28-year-old sister because she is smaller than me and tossed her on the couch one person out of the way I’m trying to get through my sister’s boyfriend but being that he’s a man he’s Hella strong compared to me so I’m telling him move out the way move out the way he’s like don’t hit her. Don’t hit her. Please don’t hit her and I’m like no she wanna talk all this shit and think I’m talking shit. I’m also show her what it really is. Now at this point, my sister‘s boyfriend is holding me back with my younger sister and the 28-year-old. My mom is standing in between me and my oldest sister and she’s so scary she’s gonna pick up a broom and I guess holding it in her hand that was not gonna stop me once I’m angry. I’ll become the Incredible Hulk. So pretty much I got three people on my back. I’m trying to shake off before I can get through my mom to get to her at this point she grabs her son and tries to put him in her arms cause she knows I’m not gonna hit him to get to her. My sister‘s boyfriend now was at this point. We’re at the top of the stairs. I’m trying to kick him down the stairs without kicking him down the stairs to get his grip off of me. I’m still tossing the 28-year-old off of me, but she keeps bouncing back real quick so everybody ends up pushing me in the kitchen. I’m kind of doing circles cause I’m mad and I’m winded at this point because I already made using the most of my strength to get them off of me so I can get to her. So I see a knife in the kitchen and no I wasn’t gonna use no weapons because I don’t need them. I end up picking it up and my 28-year-old sister looks at me with big guys and I end up throwing it in the dirty dish water in the kitchen and she starts laughing like I thought you were going to use that. I said I’m crazy but I’m not that crazy. So at this point, I’m in the kitchen. I can’t see my sister, but I can still hear him talking shit because the living room in the kitchen are put together, but to fully get in the kitchen you have to go around the corner. So there’s more yelling and more screaming somehow they end up getting her up the stairs into my mom’s room and close the door on her so I’m downstairs talking shit everybody’s like you should just leave the house and go spend some time somewhere else and then come back tomorrow. I start telling them did you guys forget I bought this house I put down the biggest down payment. I’m not leaving nowhere. The whole house keeps quiet because they know I’m telling the truth I tell them after talking shit for about 30 minutes and my sister trying to pop in and out of the room. She opens the door and says you’re a fat bitch that’s why you never left the nest. That’s why you’ve never had your own place. You’re still living at home so I just start going in like bitch didn’t you get evicted twice from your old place because of a bitch and now from this place because of your fucking mouth with me. Yeah that really says her off now she’s screaming and yelling and trying to get scissors once again that’s not gonna hurt me so I started talking more shit. I’m like you wanna talk about me but tonight you were literally dressed like a little house of the Perry and I would feel cheering you on. You guys my sister so off she was literally spinning like Peter was our Family Guy when he had those little arms and he was in that field spinning that’s how she was spinning for pictures. Which I’m like take a picture of how you like. I’m the one cheering you want out of everybody at the wedding the person who is your biggest supporter you turned on them. So after some time, I’ve heard being upstairs in the room. I’m telling people she has to leave everybody like just calm down we need another solution. I politely tell them this is the solution. This is my fucking house. She has 10 minutes to leave or I’m flipping this bitch. I go downstairs into my room. I start rolling up. I’m like let me calm down so they can get this bitch out of the house because she really thinks she’s about to stay here after talking all this shit to me and start stuff for no reason I’m like did you forget you’re the last person to talk? You don’t have a pot to piss in and a window to throw it out so you’re literally gonna bite the hand that feeds you. So I’m sitting in my room. She’s so scary. She ends up coming out of my mom‘s room coming downstairs into the room. She’s renting out with a knife to pack her stuff. I’m downstairs laughing cause I’m like you do all this shit talking, but you can’t defend yourself properly. And I didn’t even know she had a knife until one of my sisters told me because my 28-year-old sister she was sitting by the door of the room so she can look up the stairs and see what’s happening and I’m on my bed so I can’t see anything, but I can see people going in coming up and down the stairs. So I’m sitting there and I’m seeing her pack her stuff and go up the stairs me being the petty person. I am I walked right up the stairs behind her and watch her leave. She’s just gonna sit there. Everybody’s like girl don’t you do nothing and I’m like no I need to make sure the trash is being taken out. She didn’t say not one word. But now here is the kicker she walks all the way to her car at this point I’m standing in the screen door the 28-year-old is blocking me thinking I’m gonna run outside but I’m not gonna do all that as long as she was at my house. I was good. So as I’m standing in the screen door watching her, she’s flipping me off calling me all type of fat bitches and this and that and I’m like yeah I’m a fat bitch who’s gonna sleep in her own bed tonight. A fat bitch who has never been evicted. A fat bitch who doesn’t have to ask anybody else for hands out. Yeah I’ll be that fat bitch for you. She gets in her car while yelling and pulls off. I guess my younger sister followed her to whatever hotel she went to and gave her money because I told her I wasn’t putting in on shit if you’re talking to me like that. So now today, Monday while we’re all at work she went back to the house and move all her stuff out and my mom is telling me my mother also doesn’t care because it’s like you’re low-key a burden. We’re trying to help you Yet you’re getting mad at us about stuff around our house girl you don’t even live here and then there was Mother’s Day which was yesterday. I guess she got mad at my mom because my mom didn’t wish her happy Mother’s Day, which is a lie. My mother takes her and called her, and I politely taught her. Our mother is not obligated to tell your ass. Nothing be happy she’s even being kinder to you than the rest of us. We all went out to eat and had a good time and we didn’t have that burning of a shadow over us.
Sorry if my story is all over the place I’m at work. I’m a driver so I don’t have the time to reread and edit so I’m gonna post it here if you guys have any questions, just let me know.