This is less of a WIBTA and more of a Would I Kill The Vibe but there isn't a subreddit for that. I got invited to Lesbian Poker Night by a friend; nothing wild, just a gaggle of gay girls playing texas hold'em, but the host has a pool so we're planning to swim as well. I haven't worn a revealing swimsuit in a very long time (I usually opt for board shorts and a sports bra), but this time I want to look cute and not like Adam Sandler. The problem is I have thick scars all over my upper thighs. They're all long healed and mostly white, but they are still very visible and it's pretty obvious what they're from. I don't know most of the girls going (I got invited by a mutual friend) so I'm worried I'll throw off the vibe if I wear a swimsuit that shows my scars. I don't think a lot of it when I see someone else's SH scars, but that's because I've been desensitized to it so I don't think I can trust my own perspective of the situation. If you were at a pool party and could see someone's SH scars, would you feel uncomfortable or upset? I want honest answers, I don't need a self-esteem boost. I am already comfortable with my own body and my scars, I just don't want to make other people uncomfortable.
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u/Frosty-Beyond9180 — 8 days ago
When using an en dash to turn two nouns and a verb into an adjective, do you put an the dash between every word (heathcare-provider-approved) or just the last noun and the verb (heathcare provider-approved)? Been doing it intuitively for years but now I'm writing for a scholarship and I really want to cover all my bases.
u/Frosty-Beyond9180 — 10 days ago