F22 here. I was talking to this guy (M21) for about 2 months na but I ended things with him recently and now I’ve been questioning whether I made the right decision. He was actually okay naman — we updated each other every day, matino siya kausap, and he was even starting to ask me out on a proper date. What started bothering me was when I noticed that he’s liking other girls’ bikini pictures. At first, I told myself maybe friend lang niya yun so I tried not to make it a big deal. Then I saw he liked a reel of a guy interviewing Criza Taa where part of the clip was clearly focused on her chest. Again, I tried to brush it off and thought maybe accidental like lang or sadyang fan lang siya, but after that I noticed he had liked a few other reels that also felt medyo green-minded to me. I know some people might think those things are harmless, but personally I really don’t like men who come across as lustful, so it started to bother me more than I expected.
He also kept going to bars kasi panay aya daw ng sister niya sakanya, and whenever they went out, he would automatically sleep at her condo after instead of going home. He told me he liked staying there bcs he felt spoiled since he didn’t have to do anything there except matulog and kumain, so I feel like yun yung reason bakit lagi siya sumasama. Honestly, wala naman sakin yung pag bar, but what really made me uncomfortable was when he sent me an update nung isang gabi and he was in a room full of girls wearing name tags and revealing outfits, and that really triggered my overthinking. Because of that, I ended up telling him that I felt like we weren’t compatible.
Now that some time has passed, I sometimes feel like I regret ending it kasi feeling ko masyado ko lang inoverthink and dapat hinayaan ko nalang muna.