Hello guys! I'd really wish an advice from you. Beforehand and contextualising: I'm 33 y.o., from Colombia, and for a huge amount of reasons (trauma, depression, neurodivergence, economic, etc) I've never had a relationship, or sex, and I'm practically inept at dating. What I've had for sure is a lot of broken hearted moments.
Looking at it in perspective, I would like again to challenge myself and hopefully find a partner. My history in dating apps has been a disaster, and because of the stimuli and my hearing problems, I don't go very well with noisy clubs.
Moving on from context: There is this man in the same building I'm working at (not the same company though, so he's not my coworker) that has catched my attention. We've never spoken, and obviously don't know if he's gay. I don't know even his name!
I don't know if it would be too risky to approach him, if it would worth it; and in the case that is worthwhile, I don't know for sure how to do it as well. The times I tried to "flirt" (whatever it would be in my case), I've always had something in common to reach them. In this scenario, it seems to be way more difficult since there's nothing that "link" us.
What would you do in my place? I'd like to read your advices even if they're tough. Feel free to ask any questions that may arise. Sorry because of my English level. Thank you!