u/FriendlyDrummers

Who is "allowed" to make criticisms feels very asymmetrical.
🔥 Hot ▲ 143 r/ContraPoints

Who is "allowed" to make criticisms feels very asymmetrical.

Here's a pattern I'm seeing. Some leftist (streamer) refers to people they dislike as "shitlibs," "libt*rds," and "sch*zos."

A leftist streamer is allowed to scream at people who are "too liberal." It can be directed at random people, such as college kids being interviewed on campus by a right winger. These students will be accused of being stupid liberals just for trying to respond to a right winger. Not liberal politicians, but students.

So it's ok for a leftist streamer to go after everyone they think is a "libt*rd," but it's not ok for a "liberal" to push back?

Natalie isn't a liberal, but even if she was. Why is it ok for a leftist to constantly degrade and insult random liberals, but it's somehow unacceptable for "a liberal" to push back? Should Natalie start calling people "shit commies" and "commie t*rds"?

Ironically, it's as if they believe liberals are supposed to go high when they go low. To just shrug it off and completely ignore it.

And obviously, Natalie is not a liberal (nor am I). But it feels apparent to me that some influential leftists can't take what they dish out. Natalie is hardly marching the aggressive energy that some on the left use against her, especially the criticisms that are truly uncharitable.

Also, let's be real. She's not criticizing random twitter users. She's incorrectly criticizing the leftist influencers who are too sensitive to take critique head-on.

u/FriendlyDrummers — 7 hours ago
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I created a friend group that kicked me out

There are four people here. Fake names

  1. Sally

  2. Lisa

  3. Adam

  4. Joe, my ex (we are gay)

All five of us went to highschool together and knew each other, but they weren't close with each other.

Sally's mom died of cancer. I would have been her *only* friend to go to the funeral, if not for dragging Lisa with me. Lisa told me she did not want to go, since she was no longer close with Sally (they used to be roommates).

I frequently drove to Sally's house, which was 40 minutes from everyone else. I was able to pick up Lisa and Adam, convincing them to come with me to hang out with Sally. I didn't want her to be alone. The four of us would hang out often.

Adam is friends with Joe, my ex. Now that Sally, Lisa, and Adam were close, they started hanging out at Joe's place sometimes. No problem, not my business.

But then, Sally became close to Joe. Sally then moved into an apartment with Joe, and suddenly, I was out of the picture. I was gone.

I built up a group of friends because I wanted people to be around Sally during her grief. None of them wanted to be at her mother's funeral, despite being friends with her in the past. I was the one who showed up. And now, I'm just not there. I tried to hang out, but it was difficult, and uncommon. I got the hint.

I have friends. I don't "need" them. But sometimes I still think about how easily it was for them to stop talking to me. And I don't think Sally will ever know how much I worried for her, and how hard I tried to help her. The only friends she has to this day are the friends I reintroduced into her life.

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u/FriendlyDrummers — 1 day ago
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Kinda hard being in the south 🤷🏽

Got called ugly by my best friend's friend. No longer friends with either of them. It's caused a lot of insecurities that have accumulated and really hurt me. Trying to feel more confident, but it's hard when people want you to be white

u/FriendlyDrummers — 4 days ago
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I can't unblock someone so I can report them?

Seriously, what is with this awful policy? Also, why can't reddit just TELL US why? Just say "you cannot report someone you blocked"?? Reddit does the dumbest stuff.

For whatever reason, I'm unable to undo a block completely. I've tried. I clicked the x next to their name on the block list then I click save. I refresh, and they're still blocked.

For such a big social media site, I'm getting really tired of both their constant chances around blocking, as well as the constant glitches.

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u/FriendlyDrummers — 4 days ago