r/gaysian

I am making this post in here because in askgaybros sub they delete comments of people who call out anti blackness. I’m so confused why so many other asian gays only date white guys, I live in SF and I’m filipino and a lot of the asians here chase after white men, On instagram all I see is asian dating white, I rarely see asian and asian Ive also had the same experience when I lived in NYC. It is very frustrating. I’m not saying any of those relationships are not genuine but It so many self hating asians dude. I prefer men of color but I do like men of my own race and I’ve also noticed a lot of other asians do not like black men? What up with that man? Why are we upholding whiteness is our community and not fighting against it.

i used to meet the FUNNIEST people here

looking for new funny friends…😙

Hi,

I've always heard that in hookup in Japan, people always take a shower just before and after. Is that still the case?

I'm wondering because I had one with a guy in Nichome, he took me to the hotel, and he went straight to it. Just curious your experience

Hey everyone,

I’m planning a solo trip to Thailand at the end of July and will be spending some time in Bangkok. I’m trying to decide between Togayther Hostel and MyBed Ratchada, but I’m mainly looking for a place that’s social, fun, and ideally has a bit of a cruising / hookup vibe. I’m also Asian/Hispanic if that matters.

I only speak English, so somewhere that’s friendly for international travelers would be really important. I’d also prefer something affordable but still safe.

I’m hoping to meet locals and other travelers, go out to gay bars/parties, and just have a fun, social experience overall. If anyone has stayed at either of these places (or has better recommendations), I’d really appreciate your thoughts!

Which one is more social or “cruisy”?

Is it easy to meet locals from there? Aka Thai and other Asian backgrounds?

Any other hostels in Bangkok that might be better for this vibe?

Thanks in advance