So today, I look at his 'links' activity on Instagram, while using his phone to doomscroll reels cause mine was dead, to find a top that I had been looking for which's link I clicked earlier. I saw that he viewed his ex's pinterest (rogue) profile which is linked in her private accounts' bio, and scrolled quite far to select images of her to click on. I know this may sound petty, but I was just confused by this, seemed a bit out of character, as I'd thought we had blocked our previous partners. I ask him and he's immediately apologetic, said his friends wanted to see what his ex's looked like, meaning he showed them images/accounts of multiple girls he's talked to. He said he'd done it multiple times with the same group of people, as they 'begged to see it'. Why would they want to see it multiple times so keenly? Idk doesn't really sit right with me. He also said they wanted to compare them to me like kind of wtf why would you openly agree to let your friends critique and compare me to your ex's in front of you? What would you say being part of that conversation, which could have been negative towards me. I just feel as though it's disrespectful. He has accepted he is wrong and begged for forgiveness but I don't know what to think.
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