Both of us have had a strong feeling towards each other. I believe it's since day one. He's a controlled, image focued man. I am a controlled and reserved woman. He's married and I'm single. I've managed to hide my feelings throughout. he never pushed, yet he controlled me so much i felt distracted from my work. Placing me in places where he can see me and manage me. I felt he was lonely and isolated in that place since everyone either performs or resents him. I stayed for 6 months. Did my best. Was looked up to by him and resented by some other staff. We wouldn't go a week without him stopping me by his office and talking about my work. I was observed for six months even though i had 9 years experience in the field. One day, I finished work early and wanted to go home. He followed me to my office while I was packing. and closed the door. He looked at me, eyebrows downward. Smiling and looking at my li[s intensely. He then changed it into some trivial subject which he couldn've texted. then again, the same look. this time got a bit closer to me. i gave him my back. He adjusted his face and left. This was the 6th month. Next month, I resigned. He got mad and withheld my salary for 30 days and paied me with a message that conveys hurt, and dissapointment. He also told me i don't deseve to be paied if it wasn't for the management's generousity! I thanked him anyways.
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