u/Free-Step7723

Sad noodles- tried to rent friends, feel dumb now.

Sad noodles- tried to rent friends, feel dumb now.

​ Picture-spaghetti without meat, since the meat looked weird after it was cooked lol.

TL;DR - offering to pay people to be my friend, now I feel like a bigger loser.

Well guys, I cracked under pressure. My mental health has been iffy from being cooped up in the house. I've tried making friends, and I'm not having the best luck.

I joined local groups and put myself out there, it didn't go over well at all, had quite a few ignorant comments, so I deleted the post.

During my crying session, I posted in a different group anonymously, offering to pay someone to partake in an activity with me, such as going to a nail salon, or getting lunch, well my husband saw me making the post (picture me curled into fetal position, crying while posting a weird ass FB post lmfao), he started crying telling me he feels horrible for me. Now I feel bad, because I was just hoping I could tell him "hey I made a friend!" And he would be happy for me, but here we are instead lol (I think it's sweet he cares the way he does, I just wish he would notice that him not hanging out with his friends, does not help this situation).

I deleted the other post too, as I don't want people to feel like they're only valuable if they're paid. I'm thinking about going through one of those rentafriend sites.

Not fully looking for advice, but if you've used the rentafriend site, whether to be the friend that's rented, or rented one yourself, can you let me know how it went?

Otherwise just support?

Thank you lovely humans 🫶🏻

Edit to change post flair, I feel like I'm being counterintuitive saying no advice, but being open to some, so just try to keep it on topic please 🫶🏻

u/Free-Step7723 — 1 day ago

(WV) landlord just don't care

We moved into an older apartment earlier this year after searching forever because housing here is honestly rough.

At first it was just little issues, but it’s gotten way worse over time.

Right now we’ve got:

stove didn’t work for the first month we lived here

living room floor is visibly sagging and has gaps

gaps around the bathroom and front door (it’s not even really sealed)

bedroom ceiling and kitchen ceiling both leak when it rains

we recently found out the “flat roof” is basically just a tarp(tarp on top of whatever's left after shingles and whatever other parts of roof got yanked off)

after the last rain, there’s now black mold showing up on the kitchen and bedroom ceilings

?-neighboring unit is empty, and torn to crap as the roof had caved into that unit (hence the tarp), and they didn't repair the unit at all, so when it rains it sounds like we have a water feature next door, I'm saying pounding rain to the point it's flooding and the unit below it's in the same condition.

We did report the roof/leaks right away and were basically told to just put in a maintenance request and “they’re busy,” even though water was actively coming in for days.

The big thing now is our city is starting rental inspections and licensing for landlords, and I honestly don’t know what’s going to happen if this place gets inspected. I know it’s going to fail with all of this going on, but we can’t afford to just move right now.

We didn’t know about the roof issues at move-in because it was winter and nothing was actively leaking yet. Since then, wind and rain have exposed major problems, including a tarp used as the roof and ongoing water intrusion. Other tenants have told us the roof has reportedly been in this condition for about a year. We’re not in a position to move right now, so we’re trying to understand what our options are and what typically happens in situations like this when code enforcement gets involved.

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u/Free-Step7723 — 6 days ago
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Ughh! So many code violations.

We moved into an older apartment earlier this year after searching forever because housing here is honestly rough.

At first it was just little issues, but it’s gotten way worse over time.

Right now we’ve got:

-stove didn’t work for the first month we lived here

-living room floor is visibly sagging and has gaps

gaps around the bathroom and front door (it’s not even really sealed)

-bedroom ceiling and kitchen ceiling both leak when it rains

we recently found out the “flat roof” is just a tarp

-after the last rain, there’s now black mold showing up on the kitchen and bedroom ceilings

-neighboring unit is empty, and torn to crap as the roof had caved into that unit (hence the tarp), and they didn't repair the unit at all, so when it rains it sounds like we have a water feature next door, I'm saying pounding rain to the point it's flooding and the unit below it's in the same condition. We did report the roof/leaks right away and were basically told to just put in a maintenance request and “they’re busy,” even though water was actively coming in for days.

The big thing now is our city is starting rental inspections and licensing for landlords, and I honestly don’t know what’s going to happen if this place gets inspected. I know it’s going to fail with all of this going on, but we can’t afford to just move right now.

What usually happens in situations like this? Can they force repairs, or does it end up with tenants having to leave?

State is West Virginia

We didn’t know about the roof issues at move-in because it was winter and nothing was actively leaking yet. Since then, wind and rain have exposed major problems, including a tarp used as the roof and ongoing water intrusion. Other tenants have told us the roof has reportedly been in this condition for about a year. We’re not in a position to move right now, so we’re trying to understand what our options are and what typically happens in situations like this when code enforcement gets involved

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u/Free-Step7723 — 6 days ago

I feel lucky as heck lately, I've been grinding out the surveys for about 30-45 minutes in the morning, check again at noon for about 20 minutes then again before bed, sometimes you get lower paying offers, but just try and take ones that average 15-20 cents a minute to do, no matter the length and you'll be solid! I've been bringing in about 15-25 extra a day, without trying.

https://attapoll.app/join/etpqa

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u/Free-Step7723 — 11 days ago

I'm so excited! I used to be in a few FB groups a few years ago, and would gift all the time. Sadly, I'm currently out of work due to extreme health issues, so gifting will be limited to what I make from survey gift cards on occasion.

This is my anxiety/adhd wishlist. I know it sounds crazy, but coloring books really help 😁.

u/Free-Step7723 — 16 days ago