39 and pregnant…father doesn’t want. Advice please
hi. just after some advice. I’m 39 (40 in a few weeks). just found out I’m 7 weeks pregnant. been with the dad for nearly 10 years. the plan was never to have children and he was adamant that he didn’t want kids. that was fine but now that we are I really am torn. I didn’t not want kids but agreed to not have to be with him. he promised to enjoy other things instead and get married. we are still not married and have finally booked an abroad holiday later this year which was something I’ve been asking to do more of. he has austism and adhd and so I am always understanding of this.
im so torn want to do. he says I should stick by my decision originally. hes not forcing me to have an abortion but he says if I did then he wouldnt be around and would be the end of our relationship. I’m just so torn with what to do. any advice greatly appreciated xx