I (M26) met this girl (23) a long time ago. At first, everything was great, she was affectionate, and I felt loved like never before. As the months went by, she changed a lot. She told me she has BPD(Borderline), among other things like ADHD. We've been through breakups and days without speaking. The problem is, I don't know to what extent it's her condition or more her attitude as a person. There have been times when she insults me, calls me names, and I've let it go because sometimes I know she's not fully aware of what she's saying. (I've read something about BPD) She gets very angry. There are other times when she asks me to communicate, but she doesn't communicate with me. She's currently going through a problem with her family, and it's been two weeks since we last spoke. I left her some messages, but she hasn't responded. Part of me wants to write to her and ask how she is. I know she needs it, but on the other hand, I don't know if it's her condition or if she's just being selfish.
PD: She is going to therapy, but the last day we spoke, Everything was strange.