u/Fragrant_Remote1410

I had been dating this guy for about a year now. We’ve been up and down. I feel like he hasn’t put in the support and effort I’ve needed and usually his response to hearing that is defensive. Anyways, he broke up with me two weeks ago saying that I just twist his words and he’s done with me. Fast forward to this weekend. He asked for another chance. Took me on a date which was alright. I had asked him to come back to my house and just stay the night because I’ve been feeling alone. I don’t have anyone else besides him. But he got mad when I said if you can’t spend the night please leave because emotionally I can’t do the back and forth sometimes he’ll text me and sometimes he doesn’t. He told me he couldn’t stay and when I said okay then I’m not sure when we’ll talk next, he got mad and started insulting me and stormed out. A few days went by and he asked for another chance. I spent the night at his house and the first night went okay. Then it followed with 2 days of not a single hug, kiss, compliment, anything. And he just kept yelling at me and saying I talk too much and lecture him too much. I went to leave his house today after he was rude all morning. And he asked if I wanted his company. And I gave him one last chance to pull himself together and be the man I needed. And I told him you can come with me if you treat me right. And he then told me actually no I need time to work on myself so Im not going to go with you. And I went back home and cried because I told him I wanted him there after everything he did and he was the one to tell me he needed the space. When I went home I told him I want no contact because I feel so hurt. I don’t know if I’m making the right decisions. Advice?