u/FragrantHost1877

Bisexuality discrimination by straight men and women

So I’ve been getting lately into the swingers scene.

I want to start hanging up with other couples… sometimes cuckold couples are looking for a third that fucks the wife… sometimes they are looking for parties, gangbangs etc

I have found myself with a lot of rejection for being openly bisexual in these contexts.

First of all, I understand most of the men involved in these are not bisexual… and that is ok, I am not planning to do anything with them if they are not into it

But they are often blatantly and aggressively anti-gay / bisexual (for them it seems gay and bisexual is the same). A lot of homophobia going on…

On the other hand I have also a found a few couples where the man is also bisexual so it seems like a perfect fit but then my intuition is that women are particularly zealous of their husband or whatever… I have also feel kind of hard to get into that although the man seem to be interested

In the swingers world as well it seems if you are single you are less than a human and to be treated like shit… since they “have” the women, you are a parasite that they need to choose not after making you feel that they are making you a favour…

It feels the gay world is a lot more welcoming… but that is a shit because I would love to have intimacy with men and women altogether…

Sorry guys just needed to get this out of my chest

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u/FragrantHost1877 — 5 days ago