u/Fragrant-Kiwi6108

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I havent told anyone this

I think My younger sister SA’d me when we were kids and i have never told anyone and im scared to.

I don’t really know what to call this and I feel weird even posting it.

When I was around 13/14, my younger sister (10/11 at the time) crossed boundaries with me in ways that made me freeze up and feel really uncomfortable. Around the same time, I was also dealing with being r@ped by my older sisters boyfriend (24 at the time) , so my memories and feelings about everything are messy and confusing.

Part of me keeps thinking maybe I imagined it or that it “doesn’t count” because we were both kids, but it still affects me now. She’s often really mean to me these days and I think it brings a lot of those feelings back up.

I don’t really know what I’m looking for by posting this. I think I just needed to finally say it somewhere because I’ve kept it inside for years. And maybe get some reassurance and advice

I have a 10 month old bengal kitten

He vomited once yesterday and wasnt himself so he was taken to the vet, they gave me medication for digestive support but he hates the medication and the food he normally has is being picked at

Any advice on how to get him to take the medication (its a paste/liquid)

And any food recommendations? (I live in the uk)

Also is there any treats you recommend i try with him?