I'm 30F and I have a fair share of matches ever since I got back to online dating 2 years ago. However, one thing I noticed is that most don't even last a month and only have 2 that went past a month (then ended at 2).
My matches ranges from local to international since I'm honestly open to anyone. Age ranges about +/- 6. All ended up with ghosting.
I have started to wonder that maybe I need to adjust how I approach dating. So I am someone who likes consistent communication by doing check-ins (doesnt even need to be daily since I also have work), I actively try to understand their lifestyle by asking questions, if they apologize for replying late I forgive (because why not..), and I share small bits of my daily life (even sending random pictures). I try to be friendly and easy to talk to.
Another thing is that I'm chubby but a bit toned since I have just gotten back into working out with the goal of losing weight so I'm not sure if my physique might also be a factor.
Honestly the whole dating (ghosting) thing has been making me feel a bit lonely at time so I thought of asking for advice here. Would really appreciate it!