u/FoxyRoxyMoxy

I (35f) met someone (28m) I thought was who I've been looking for all long. Great compatibility values wise, personality wise, we have fun, support each other, he says he feels super safe and tranquil with me which he didn't in the past with some other people...

Turns out they feel super attracted to me and we have chemistry but "it's not at the top of the spectrum/enough".

Heartbroken and losing hope.

Would love to hear your thoughts on this and maybe restore my faith in humanity and dating a bit.