When me(23 M) and my wife(23 F) met she was in school for nursing and she got pregnant within the first couple months we met.(I know how it sounds but so far we are still going strong.) Anyway when she got pregnant she because a stay at home mom while I worked so she can finish school while taking care of our new born. Her parents at the time saw nothing wrong with this infact they wouod tell me I wouldn't do enough. I worked 12 hours days, did the cooking because my wife doesn't know how to cook and I enjoy it. I also did all the maintenance on our cars as well as took our son so she could have a break.
After my wifes nursing took off we both couldn't work 12hour shifts with out having to pay for day care. Day care is more expensive than our rent so I decied to cut back since she was making more money. Eventually I just went to only two days a week so I can watch our kid full time. Ever since my wifes parents found I was the one at home they have a problem with me saying im taking advantage of their daughter. Keep in mind I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, everything that has to do with our kid as well as all our car maintenance. But the fact that I don't work is a huge issue for them. So much so that even her mom said that she would rather her daughter go back to her Ex that cheated on her multiple times and had two babymomas. (Ironically one of them lives in the same apartment complex we do lol. We only found out recently because her son got caught on the garbage fence because she let him run around without supervision.)
Despite all their hate of me we let them join our phone plan for the international minuets since they are retired and fly to their home country often. Recently they have been going over their allowed minuets and don't wanna pay it. They are literally on social security so it's not like they need it. Instead my wifes mother said when don't you tell that mooch to pay it. My wife doesn't like confrontation with her parents and I can't really blame her it's her parents but I keep my distance.
So thats when I decided to cut them off our phone plan and moved them into their own plan. They since got the bill for 180$ when they only paid 90$ with us. They are upset that we would something like this and that it was joke. Keep in mind they never sent the money and we had to pay it out of pocket so now thats 80$ less we have for our kids birthday that is soon and we had to change the plans we had for him having to do something cheaper instead. We have also uninvited them from the party as well as any contact with us until they either apologize or suck it up and not see their grandchild any more.
So I ask AITAH for dealing with their treatment of me for over 5 years now or did I go to far?