u/Forward_Honeydew_794

We have known eachother for around 2 years by now and we got into this relationship in around late november of 2025 and in march she was not as energetic as she was like always and she reposted sad or miserable videos on tiktok and i stopped texting her for a month and around 10-17 of april she was spamming me from tiktok, instagram, snapchat and even whatsapp and we made up at around the 18th of april and lately she's been talking a lot about this one japanese all you can eat restaurant and was mad her mom wasn't taking her there because she was busy so at 5th of may she went to that restaurant and i texted her "hey who did you go with?" and she replied with "with one of my friends" then she said "don't worry he has a girlfriend +i only want you, i love you" and i just said "ok" and left the messaging app and she asked me "are you mad?" and i left that on delivered and ignored her for a whole day (6th of may) and she asked me why was i ignoring her or did i not want to talk? I was burning with jealousy and hate and i felt hurt, can someone give me some advice with no sugarcoating and please don't hold back anything i need to work on about myself. (she was going to come to my country at the end of june to meet me)