AITAH for feeling like my friend copied my engagement ring?
I (29,F) have a best friend “Chloe” (29,F) who I have been friends with since college. We are fairly close and text nearly every day despite living in different states. A couple months ago my bf of 3 years expressed that he wanted to take the next step in our relationship. Shortly after, we went ring shopping and customized my engagement ring together. I was so excited that in a group chat with my close friends including Chloe, I sent photos of the mock design and similar sketches of my final ring design. Chloe and her bf have been together a couple years longer than my bf and I. A few months prior to my going ring shopping, she expressed feeling upset that she and her bf had been fighting about moving in together and had not even discussed marriage. Suddenly, two or three weeks after I finalized my engagement ring, she and her bf moved in together. Two weeks after moving in together, she was shopping for engagement rings. At the time she told me she wanted silver and princess cut. I was a bit concerned at the pace they were going (move in then suddenly ring shopping after living together less than a month) but I expressed excitement at all the rings she showed me. About two months after moving in together, her bf proposed. I was shocked to see her engagement ring was similar to mine. My other friends in our group chat texted me privately also expressing shock. Chloe then texted me after and asked me “what design were you thinking of again?” As if I didn’t send her pics! I have been feeling pretty bent out of shape about it but I haven’t spoken to her about it because it feels mean spirited. I know my bf has my ring (only cause he made weird comments about padding our savings with no context lol), but now I feel like it’s going to look like I copied Chloe since she got engaged first. She also keeps telling me that we are twinning because our rings are similar which is PMO so bad. So redditors. AITAH for feeling annoyed that Chloe copied me?