u/Forsaken_Coffee2049

I am very unconventional looking and my natural face is ugly as fuck. I have a big face, small eyes, small lashes, chubby/saggy cheeks, sunken eyes, and an overall masculine face. I seriously have gotten told i look like a “jungle” person, a man, or like a “male native indian chief” as an insult, which has made me cry. I dont look like a woman at all without any makeup

When i put on big fake lashes and makeup, i genuinely look SO different it’s crazy. I actually look a bit more like a woman. Im still not conventionally attractive, but it helps me look not as ugly.

I just feel like a huge catfish though and i desperately wish i was just naturally beautiful so i wouldn’t have to deal with all this bs. Doesnt help that im flat everywhere with a badly shaped body. My only hope is getting plastic surgery in the future, which im 100% serious about

Hello all, this is really embarrassing to post so i would please appreciate some advice

I am 22 years old and currently in college. I REALLY want a job more than anything in the world, but im not allowed to. My mom has always sheltered me and treats me like a child, so she genuinely thinks i cannot handle a job. She thinks i will live forever with her on top of that and wants me to be dependent on her, but i really really dont want to since she makes my mental health suffer

Also my mom has section 8/government assitance, so she constantly tells me i cant get a job or else it will screw her over since they raise the rent more. I’ve offered to give her money if i can get a job, but she always gets belligerent about it and gets angry

I cant lie to her because im forced to show her all my bank statements/income i have when i make money since the social workers always ask for it.

I genuinely feel so discouraged and i dont know what to do. I would appreciate if someone can give me some helpful advice because every single time i ask for help all the comments tell me to just suck it up and that i can make my own decisions because im already an adult. I dont know what to do though and its so difficult when my mom wont let me make my own decisions and has constantly controlled everything i do my entire life

Hi all! Yesterday I made an appointment for today with an associate banker at my local Chase, but i think i accidentally made the wrong appointment? I just went to Chase today and told them i wanted to discuss my missed payment plans and debt. The lady at the front desk -the banker i made an appointment with- told me she couldnt see any other owed amount and that i only owed them $20.

I was extremely confused because im 100% certain i have 1.7k in debt. I kept insisting that i was in that much debt and i had to pay off my missed payment, but she kept telling me the $20 was all i could see.

Who should i talk to at Chase to discuss my missed payments/debt? Do i call customer service?

Hello all, i really need some advice. I am at 1.7k in debt and its slowly been racking up from fees. I am so embarrassed to even admit it and i genuinely feel really dumb.

The debt mainly came from dental expenses ($12k in total). Im 22 years old and in college so im broke as hell. My mom just found out about it today and i had to lie to not freak her out - told her it was $300 instead of $2k. I know its stupid to not be honest, but i genuinely refuse to let her know since i dont want her dealing with my problems

My family is REALLY poor in general so almost $2k is seriously an insane amount. We can only ever buy $2-$3k used cars to put into perspective. Im actively trying to make money through small gigs and selling stuff, but its obviously not enough due to other expenses i have.

Im on the hunt for a job again because i REALLY want to work solely to pay this off, but its been a pain in the ass especially when i get rejected for simple jobs that want prior experience

I just scheduled a meeting with a Chase bank tomorrow and i feel so anxious. Please give me some advice cause i dont know what to do or how to plan out my expenses