u/Forsaken-Horse530

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. He is a senior and I am a junior. We go to a boarding school, and live on campus. Neither of us are super social and we’re each others best friends, we’re very close. His roommate is possibly hosting after prom party off campus an hour away and decided to make it seniors only when it has always been seniors and juniors. Prom is both seniors and juniors so it’s always made sense to have both at the afters. He is not a huge fan of his roommate but they are friendly but his roommate adores him and is jealous that he spends so much time with me. He has never expressed interest, and has actually chosen not to go to past highschool parties. He didn’t understand why so would be upset if he were to ditch me to go to this. He also chooses to not have many bestfriends.

Here are the other options:
\-We go to a different party together and then go to his moms for the night
\-we go to his moms for the night

I am sure we could likely find other options, but am I going crazy? or is it valid to be upset?

I had already made a post like this but it was written by his friend (who is into him) who ended up making it super biased, so here is the realistic version

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. He is a senior and I am a junior. We go to a boarding school, and live on campus. Neither of us are super social and we’re each others best friends, we’re very close. His roommate is possibly hosting after prom party off campus an hour away and decided to make it seniors only when it has always been seniors and juniors. Prom is both seniors and juniors so it’s always made sense to have both at the afters. He is not a huge fan of his roommate but they are friendly but his roommate adores him and is jealous that he spends so much time with me. He has never expressed interest, and has actually chosen not to go to past highschool parties. He didn’t understand why so would be upset if he were to ditch me to go to this. He also chooses to not have many bestfriends.

Here are the other options:
-We go to a different party together and then go to his moms for the night
-we go to his moms for the night

I am sure we could likely find other options, but am I going crazy? or is it valid to be upset?

Hi all!

I am going to prom with my boyfriend. He is a senior and I am a junior. He doesn’t understand why I would be upset that he ditches me and goes to a senior only party. Am I being unreasonable? we go to a boarding school that does have many parties at all. like 2-3 a year. He now has the opportunity to go to his first highschool party. Keep in mind that last year he did not attend last years after prom either and neither did i.