I genuinely want to know why SAHM make it so hard on themselves
I got laid off for about three months because of the ice raids last year, we have a 6 year old and a 1 year old, my wife went to work and I took care of everything. The first week I was off the whole house got deep cleaned and stayed that way for the whole three months and I would take the 6 year old to school and picked him up, got homework done with him and my wife always had a hot meal when she got back and I still fixed everything that needed fixing. I worked at most 2 hours a day and just played with the kids and video games most of the day because everything was pretty much done. Being a stay at home parent was a vacation I had everything down to a T and when there was unexpected situations that needed to be taken care of it really didn’t affect anything because I already had everything down to a system. But I can’t seem to understand why my wife has such trouble with it