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Can Algerian women marry an impotent man ?

Salamoualikoum everyone,
I’m an Algerian man 26M , a doctor and I’ve been struggling with a very personal issue that has made me extremely hesitant about marriage.
For some time now, I’ve had problems with erectile dysfunction (or what some people might call impotence). I’m not completely sure what caused it.
Over the past few years, I gained a significant amount of weight, and that’s when I first started noticing the problem. More recently, I’ve been working on losing weight, and I have noticed some improvement, but things have not returned fully to normal yet. Shghl je suis pas sûr lkn je peux performer convenablement ou pas.
I also took psychiatric medications for a period of time, and I know that some of these medications can affect sexual function as well. Because of that, I honestly don’t know whether the main cause is the weight gain, the medications, or a combination of both.
The reason this worries me so much is that I genuinely want to get married and build a family and like ny7kem f الشهوة te3i but this issue has made me afraid to move forward. I keep wondering whether an Algerian woman would be willing to marry someone dealing with this kind of problem, especially when I’m actively trying to improve my health and I still have hope that it may get better.
I know that marriage is based on many things beyond sexual performance but I also understand that intimacy is an important part of married life.

So I wanted to ask:
Would an Algerian woman realistically accept marrying a man who is dealing with impotence ? Like manish 100% impotent i get morning erections and stuff like that but idk
I guess fhemtou wesh hab ngoul.

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u/Foreign_Client8108 — 3 days ago

I am becoming a salafi but..

I have been thinking about this recently to follow the straight path of the salaf but the thing is , i am way too immersed in sins like i started being regular in my prayers and i started reading salafi books and i am embracing the ideology but the thing is my household is not very religious like they do the bare minimum of religious duties so i had a lot of problems when i grew my beard and shortened my pants. Not only that idk why when i decided to نستقيم that absolute baddies are sent my way, like i was never approached by a woman in my life and now i am getting baddies, but i read that it can be a test from Allah to see how honest i am in my repentance.

Another problem i am facing is :

Loving to sin like i was so attached to sins that they became normalized so when i try to give up things i feel like i am giving up normal things and i struggle with them ! I am trying to rewire my brain the islamic way i hope i will manage to do it may Allah guide us all.

Anyway please guys make duaa for me and if you have any advice please tell me !

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u/Foreign_Client8108 — 5 days ago