u/Foreign-Spot656

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I’ve noticed a pattern with the person I’m dating. Whenever I stop texting first, become a little distant, or focus on my own things, suddenly they become super attentive and affectionate. But when I’m consistent and available, the energy drops again.

It’s confusing because I can’t tell if they genuinely like me or just enjoy the chase. I don’t want to play games in relationships, but I also don’t want to ignore a pattern if it’s unhealthy.

Has anyone dated someone like this before? Did it get better over time or was it a sign to leave?