u/Foreign-Specific-389

For me (Cat) I kinda mind because even though i am mostly who is out i still dont like the idea that people might not like us as a whole because of who is fronting. Sometimes it almost feels like someone's scared if it isnt me who's out (found that out when co consious with Randy who was fronting). I know it doesn't bother Randy as much as it does me but it still slightly hurts his feelings that my friend might not wanna call or talk to him since he isnt me. I know when a little alter fronts they lowkey dgaf which im happy for because i never want any extra things for them to worry about, they just go on abt their time and dont care what other opinions are there. It also depends who is asking for me because one of my friends is fully accepting of my DID and doesnt care who is out and treats our friendships equally; i never mind them asking.

I just tried to post in five different subreddits right? But then i need a minimum karma. Well how the fuck am i meant to get posting karma if nowhere wants to let me post like im actually losing my mind. Im sorry im not on 24/7 and only post when i have something to share or say, my badddd. I try not to be too negative but it just annoyed me sm i wanted to get it out to feel better. It also annoys me to no end when they refuse to tell me what karma level i need like im sorry but your subreddit can not be that important that you have to gatekeep the age and karma i need to post stfu. Sorry about the swearing and all im just worked up,, any tips on getting karma when reddit tries its best to not let you? (now if this post gets automodded for not having enough karma i might just give up and cry)

Edit: Thanks for all the suggestions and explanations, while i havent commented back i have read every comment and taken something from it. I am much less annoyed and appreciate you all:)