Long story short, I am newly divorced but still living together. We openly said we would never bring a future love interest back to the house. So, over the last couple of weeks, I met my ex-wife's new boyfriend, more so for the sake of our child, which is fine. This meeting happened in what was our family home, and this is all fine because I agreed to it. But the day he went home (he's not local to us) while I was at work they came round the house and was there for a good hour so firstly is this seen as breaking the rule we both agreed on and if so dows this then allow me to bring someone back when shes not there or should i be the bigger person and respect what we agreed
I only ask this because i have been chatting to someone and we are both in the same situation getting divorced but still living with ex partners and because my exs new partner isnt local i have more time with an empty house as she will visit him more often. So apart of me is like that 1 hour has broken the boundry we had set reguardless of if they did anything or not so im entitled to do what i please but also i feel like inshould be the bigger person and not bring my current love interest back
Any advice would be appreciated
Ps i know i need to get out the house blah blah but houses dont just sell like sweets in a shop and not everyone can just up and leave..